Welcome to the Forum Community, @Nightmonger. I also have three bulbs in one group and each one can be controlled individually. All are on FW 1.2.0.273, IOS 14.1.
When you enter the group all the bulbs are simply listed. But tapping on any one expands to a larger menu with a ”More” option.
Make sure you have also the most current app version for your OS.
If you need more help, please post back and include your App and FW version, your device type and OS versions. Hope this helps!
