Stalking or harassing is not something to take litely. It’s a fine line between being mean and breaking the law. And when it comes to jealousy or revenge, it’s too easy for the perp to take things too far especially by accident. So whenever you are a victim of such things, take action immediately toKe it stop, preferbly with some one who is skilled or works in the field to put a stop to it. At first it might not seem so bad and more than likely will end on its own but you don’t want to be the one where it doesn’t stop on its own. When you realize it won’t stop it might be to the point of bad things have happened. Don’t let it get that far. If they have done it in the past or doing it now, they will do it again on the future. Only you can help the next victim before they become a victim. As the person before you should if prevented you from being a victim.
Let me be very clear… It is illegal for anyone to access your personal electronic fldata, software, hardware, physical property, personal space without your permission no matter if it protected, not protected, have login info or use to have permission. Once it is clear that the other person is no longer invited into your life, they have Moral and legal responsibility to keep out of your life.
It comes down to is if the relationship is over he should have known even if not specifically told that he isn’t to be in your personal and private life. Doing so is a violation to you and your digital/physical property. End of story, do not allow others to invade you without permission.
I hope all works out for you, will keep you in my thoughts.